Kiss Her

Go to her place of work or school one morning when she isn't expecting it. Chat with her on the phone on her way there and tell her you miss her and would love nothing more than a hug and kiss to get your day started better. Then, when she pulls up to park, she will see you standing there with a big smile. Spend the next 15 seconds or so just hugging her. Kiss her deeply. Spend another 15 seconds hugging her. Give her one more quick kiss and let her be on her way. With about a 1 minute delay of her day, you've now brightened her week!

Oh, don't forget to tell her you love her and a specific example of something you love about her. It could be the way her hair blows in the breeze, how she reminded you to pick up a birthday card, fixed you dinner the other day, or anything else you appreciate.

Put Her First

Anything worthwhile takes work. If you want a relationship to value, it will take work. Most of the time the work will be enjoyable, but other times it will not be.

Action Items

Honor her publicly and stake out your territory

Remind her with little things -- especially where she will see them often

Rember the golden rule

• The coffee mug
• Call her
• Kiss her in public -- Really kiss her
• Send flowers
• Key ring
• Handle icky things
• Take care of her when she is sick

Remember -- she is worth it!

A few possible chapters topics

These are in no particular order...

1. Have a mentor (mentor)
2. Learn her love language (primary)
3. Get to know her (who)
4. Really get to know her (listen)
5. Learn how to speak her love language (speak)
5 1/2. Teach her yours (speak)
6. Remind her daily (actions)
7. Re-enforce it weekly (actions)
8. Quarterly Princess (actions)
9. Annual Queen (actions)
10. About sex (sex)
11. Oh yeah, the other 4 love languages (speak) (listen)
12. Her 3 needs (needs)
13. Your 3 needs (needs)
14. Did I mention communication? (communication)
15. Money (money)
16. Kids (kids)